I try very hard not to hurt someone's feelings. Unfortunately, wife cheated and there are times when I do. I have a friend on this site whom I've met through one of my meet and greets over a year ago. He is a good person, and I know that there are several people who are concern with the blogs that he post about me. Overall...HE is a good person, and I value his friendship. Please understand that I try to answer everyone's post. I really do. Unfortunately, I'm an incredibly prolific blogger because if I see or hear something that intrigues me...I would want to share with all of you and ask for your input. Now, with that said...I do NOT see STANDARD members free online dating sites posts sometimes for HOURS! Thus, if you are a standard member and you see how I've responded to everyone's posts, but YOURS...HELLO...please REMEMBER this blog! I DID NOT IGNORE YOU! I do NOT even IGNORE those comments which basically said 'wanna fuck?' The site has been experiencing glitches lately. I've had people complaining that I've set my posts to friends only when I HAVE NOT. I've had a wonderful friend of mine tell me that she can't respond to my email...instead she had to post her response to my email on my blog. I NEVER BLOCKED HER! I'd Have an Affair NOT been able to post on some of my friends' blogs about big beautiful women dating site because it was giving me the message of I need to be a friend WHEN I was already in their friend's network! I have twenty something blogs that I WATCH. For ME, a WATCHER is a friend who actually WANTS to read what I have to say...I value this...even when they do NOT posts...I value the men looking for women individual who would WANT to read my writings! Therefore, when I can't access the blogs of those I WATCH...I get a little annoy with these glitches! AND I will be adding to my WATCH LIST because there are so MANY AMAZING BLOGGERS in blogville...I love reading their blogs! I have learned that when I change the SETTINGS on my blogs or RE-SET my profile alerts...these glitches happens to me. Therefore, before Have an Affair people start getting paranoid or thinking that someone is mad when they are not...or even anything else...PLEASE take a step back and THINK about what YOU know to be true! What I know to be TRUE... 1. Standard members' comment can take up to 6 hours to appear! 2. Standard members' blogs take hours to be approve if not a full day. 3. The site is making improvements and doing away with some functions...therefore, THERE WILL BE GLITCHES IN THE PROGRAMING...CONTACT CUSTOMER SERVICE FOR FURTHER DETAILS! 4. EN does NOT have any special powers or influences over Adult FriendFinder! Please REMEMBER THAT... BEFORE I BANNED ALL OF MY TROUBLE MAKERS...MY BLOG AND PROFILE WERE CONSTANTLY DELETED!!!!! Thank you and please share if you are experiencing some technical difficulties! Hugs!